Can a Child Choose Which Parent Gets Custody in New Jersey?
During the turmoil of a divorce, it is easy to lose sight of how your children are coping. One of the main reasons why this process is so painful for children is that it creates a sense of instability in their lives. In many cases, these children are reminded that life is completely uncontrollable. Most parents will agree that their children should have at least some measure of control as they end their relationship. So can a child choose which parents they want to live with? Determining custody is a complicated process in the state of New Jersey. There are many factors that have to be taken into account, and it is not always about what the child wants. For the most part, judges strive to make a decision that promotes the child’s best interests. This is not always in line with what the child wants. After all, a child may want to eat chocolate and candy for weeks on end, but that is clearly an unhealthy and potentially harmful choice for them to make. With all that said, jud...